The world is changing

Donald Trump is picking his staff after shocking us all by beating Hillary Clinton.
The world is changing.
The week before, the Chicago Cubs won the World Series for the first time since 1908.
The world is changing.
I have become a full blown agoraphobic in my 60s, allowing my daily life little variety.
The world is changing.
Life goes on...in a changing world!

Dear Mom...

Since you died on July 31, 2003 my life has changed a lot.
I lost forever that day the sense that someone (you) always had my back. That now makes me unsure of my choices in life, lest I screw something up.
No longer boldly going into unknown frontiers suits me now, just as attacking each one I encountered suited my younger self. Now I must admit my hard charging choices before your death were not great either but at least I advanced unafraid of consequences. Despite my best efforts to produce a grandchild you could love, none of my three wives turned out to be breeders. Despite my professional efforts from 1963 through 2004, I filed bankruptcy.
So in summary, your only child loves you and misses you more than ever. Please forgive me for falling short.

Life is sweet, until it is not.

The Day After...

Yesterday marked the fiftieth anniversary of meeting my high school sweetheart and first wife.

July 24,1966 was also a Sunday and I decided to attend the rock n roll dance at Rockland Lake Quarry outside Toledo with my pals from our own rock n roll band called The Mystic Eyes. We would begin our senior year in high school that September and we all worshiped The Beatles.

I first saw her long legs in gold short shorts before I looked into her eyes and lost my way for the next eleven years. Making wise guy comments about the band that was playing made her smile at first, then when she laughed out loud, I felt a rush of confidence and exhilaration unknown to me before that moment.

We went out every night the rest of the summer of 1966, then eloped in late December 1967.

Each of us graduated college, then divorced in 1977.

Life is sweet, until it is not.

More July

I feel better now.

My mental health issues manifested overtly and triggered my paranoia and hostility.

Can't say why. 

Just like always,this too passes.

Life is sweet until it is not.

One more week of July to go.

July happens...

More July is happening.
My family life, such as it is, disintegrated yesterday.
My modern family has included Jerry, who turned 30 yesterday, his mother Myerl, brother Peter, sister Denise, nephews Damian and Evan and his dog Phineas.
It all started when Myerl began my day by telling me that she and Denise the night before had attended a 30th birthday party for Jerry in a downtown LA high rise.
My reaction was predictable for someone with my unique set of neuroses: anger, depression, isolation, hostility, self-destruction.
Childish response I know, but an entirely involuntary, instinctive one without alternative after 66 years of this lifetime offering up one act of disrespect and betrayal after the next.

I now am back in my natural state as a lone wolf.

Wooooo!!!

Bye bye Mom...

July is back.
I hate July.
My Mom died in July.
On the 31st, in 2003.

Bye,bye Mom...

6-1-16

6-1-1-6 is the way numerologists refer to today.

Kinda cool if you ask me.

What is your favorite number?

Mine is my birthday, 13.